Can We Pretend That Airplanes in the Night Sky Are Like Shooting Stars?
Posted on June 20, 2010 | Categories: Family | Tags: holidays
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On a day where the nation celebrates fathers and fatherhood, it’s always hard for ones who don’t have a father.
I don’t talk about my family much on this blog, as a general rule. When I do, it’s always about my mom or my brother. But I do have a dad. At least, I did.
He died when I was five.
I think of my dad often and miss him every day. Some days are harder than others, and the early years were definitely harder than the more recent ones. Most days are relatively easy now, as there have been thousands of days since his death. But days like his birthday, the anniversary of his death and Father’s Day are infinitely harder than an ordinary day.
I’d make a wish on an airplane, if I could. I’d wish for him to be happy and to be at peace, wherever he is.

Meg
My utmost condolences. :( I know your wish will come true, because I always believe that those who’ve left us are happy and at peace, and I hope you have many good memories of your father even though those are a poor substitute for having him actually there.
Jenny
I’m so sorry to hear that :( But I’m sure that wherever your father is, he’s happy, at peace, and watching over you and the rest of your family everyday.
gem
I’m sorry. And I feel ya. My dad died when I was 8 and it’s just… awkward. My friends are telling me all about how they sent their dad a card or what gift they got him and I’m like “that’s nice, that’s nice” but sometimes I just wish I didn’t have to hear about it. It’s easier to not be reminded…
Melody
I am so sorry to hear that Manda. *hugs*
This was beautiful written. I am sure he is in peace, and is pleased that his wonderful daughter loves him and thinks of him a lot.
Zeenie
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure he is always thinking of you and smiling down on you. :)